By Katryna Starks <\/p>\n
In the companion piece to this one, “We Fall Down . . .”, we took a good, long look at our mistakes and we found out the lessons that we could learn from them. Now, we move from learning to healing as we take a good, long look at forgiveness.<\/p>\n By God<\/strong><\/p>\n It\u2019s almost too easy. 1 John 1:19 says, “if we confess our sins, then He is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.” That\u2019s it. No walking through fire or waging war. No tests of endurance or obstacle courses of faith. Just confession and acknowledgement that we have sinned and a desire to restore the relationship with the one we sinned against.<\/p>\n It\u2019s amazing how we tell our children to apologize when they\u2019ve hurt someone, and that their apology makes it all better. The kids usually respond with smiles \u2013 eager to continue playing with the one they hurt just a few moments ago. And, also amazing, the other always plays back. But when we hurt God, we slink away from Him, afraid to say “I’m sorry.” Afraid that it won’t be enough.<\/p>\n God says ” I am the one who will blot out your transgressions and remember your sins no more.” (Hebrews 8:12) And the price \u2013 a deep, sincere and life-changing apology, to which He responds “a contrite heart I will in no way cast out.” (Psalms 51:17)<\/p>\n Do you need to be forgiven by God? Ask, and you shall receive.<\/p>\n Of Others<\/strong><\/p>\n Jesus told us to pray that our sins would be forgiven \u2013 but He also had a request. His word to us was to ask God to forgive us as we forgave others. He even went so far as to say that if we didn\u2019t forgive others, then God would not forgive us. (Matthew 6:15) To Jesus, our forgiveness of others was so important that He even put it above sacrifice, implying that even our sacrifices to God are tainted because of our unforgiveness toward each other.<\/p>\n Is God playing a tit-for-tat game with grace? Of course not. But for us to accept forgiveness and then deny it to others is evil. In our human nature, we would probably want to hurt or wrong others as we have been hurt or wronged. In the same way, we should eagerly forgive others as we have been forgiven.<\/p>\n Of Ourselves<\/strong><\/p>\n There is someone in your life whom God has forgiven \u2013 but you have not. Who is the person you\u2019re doing this to? Like the wayward minister in The Scarlet Letter who beats himself with a whip, we berate ourselves with our thoughts and punish ourselves with self-sabotage. We think that it\u2019s a sign of humility to consider ourselves so low, but it\u2019s actually a symbol of pride. “Now, wait just a minute,” you say, “pride is thinking of yourself too highly.” Well, what would you call it when you choose your own condemnation over God\u2019s grace?<\/p>\n If you have asked, then you have been forgiven. God\u2019s word is that “there is now no condemnation in Christ Jesus” (Romans 8:1) and that “he whom the Son sets free, is free indeed.” (John 8:36)<\/p>\n Believe it. Read the companion piece to this article, We Fall Down . . ..<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":" By Katryna Starks “A saint is just a sinner who fell down … … and got up” — Donnie McClurkin In the companion piece to this one, “We Fall Down . . .”, we took a good, long look at our mistakes and we found out the lessons that we could learn from them. Now, […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-74","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-1"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/faithmile.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/74","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/faithmile.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/faithmile.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/faithmile.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/faithmile.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=74"}],"version-history":[{"count":6,"href":"https:\/\/faithmile.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/74\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":136,"href":"https:\/\/faithmile.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/74\/revisions\/136"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/faithmile.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=74"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/faithmile.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=74"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/faithmile.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=74"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}
\n“A saint is just a sinner who fell down …
\n… and got up”
\n— Donnie McClurkin<\/strong><\/p>\n
\nGod doesn\u2019t remember their sins anymore \u2013 but you won\u2019t let them forget.
\nGod says they aren\u2019t condemned \u2013 but you constantly make them feel guilty.
\nGod says “my grace is sufficient” (2 Cor 12:9) \u2013 but you can\u2019t make them pay enough.<\/p>\n
\nTake a good look in the mirror \u2013 it\u2019s you.<\/p>\n
\nWalk it.
\nLive it.
\nIt\u2019s done.<\/p>\n